A couple of times recently I've asked friends what they're doing for Christmas and they've said with remorse "There will just be the two of us".
Now I can understand their sadness, especially when children have 'flown the nest', and they feel an emptiness on Christmas Day. However people in my circumstances would dearly love to be a 'twosome' on a day which can be extremely painful to be on your own. In fact, they reckon a quarter of million people will be lonely this Christmas - of all ages too. What a sad reflection on society and family values, although in truth many families, like mine, are scattered throughout the world.
On the other hand I can understand if you don't get on with the person sitting on the other side of the turkey - then Christmas can also be very lonely.
Which brings me on to partnerships on the tennis court, or as commonly known - 'doubles'. Now I don't know if I'm too keen on all the 'touchy feely' stuff you get nowadays, especially after your partner has just dumped an easy volley into the net. However I recall a renowned doubles coach emphasizing that you should never get angry with your partner. As he said, " it can destroy their confidence, trust and understanding and can lead to a breakdown in the partnership". It certainly applies to me - I don't respond too well to criticism on the tennis court.
So here's an idea if you feel there's a 'gulf' between the two of you on Christmas Day. What about a little touch of the hand across the table (but perhaps not when you're doing the carving!). Also go easy on the chest bumps - they don't go well with Brussels sprouts!
My warmest wishes to you all at Christmas and here's to a good 2015!
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